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1、大学四级-1831 及答案解析(总分:713.00,做题时间:90 分钟)一、Part Writing(总题数:1,分数:106.00)1.校园里谈恋爱已经变得很普遍2校园里谈恋爱会引起许多问题3作为一名大学生,你怎么看(分数:106.00)_二、Part Reading Compr(总题数:1,分数:70.00)Secrets of Strong FamiliesA group of American marriage and family counselors once placed a brief notice in four dozen newspapers in 25 states.
2、 “If you live in a strong family, please contact us. We know a lot about what makes families fail; we need to know more about what make them succeed. “ Letters poured in. Then a questionnaire was mailed to each family who responded and more than 3000 families participated. One of the most surprising
3、 things to emerge is that six key qualities for making a strong family function were mentioned time and again by many families. Those qualities are:CommitmentCrucial to any familys success is an investment of time, energy, spirit and heart, an investment otherwise known as commitment. The family com
4、es first. Family members are dedicated to promoting each others welfare and happiness-and they expect the family to endure. For strong families, commitment and sexual fidelity (忠诚) are so closely linked that an extramarital affair (婚外恋) is regarded as the ultimate threat to a marriage. “An affair do
5、es terrible things to your partners self-esteem,“ one woman wrote. “It says, you are replaceable. “ Some families have seen commitment eroded by a more subtle enemy-work, and its demand on time, attention and energy.Time TogetherWhen 1500 children were asked “What do you think makes a happy family?“
6、, they didnt list money, cars, or fine homes. They replied, doing things together. Members of strong families agree. They spend lots of time together-working, playing, attending religious services, and eating meals together. What you do isnt as important, they say, as doing it. What about quality ve
7、rsus quantity of time? Strong families realize the time they spend together needs to be good time. It also needs to be sufficient; quality interaction isnt likely to develop in a few minutes together. A working mother wrote, “To excuse myself for spending so little time with my daughter by saying, I
8、t was only 5 minutes, but it was high quality, is a cop-out. “AppreciationFeeling appreciated by others is one of the most basic of human needs. Questionnaires and interviews showed that the quantity of appreciation family members expressed to one another was even greater than anticipated. One mothe
9、r wrote. “Each night we go into the childrens bedrooms and give each a big hug and kiss. Then we say, you are really good kids and we love you very much. We think it is important to leave that message with them at the end of that day. “ A wife said “When my husband comes home he says, I see youve be
10、en busy with boys today and you got your hair cut and did the marketing. He doesnt mention the weedy garden. And when he comes in disappointed over a sale he missed, I remind him of the three he made last week. Weve conditioned ourselves to look at what we have rather than what we lack. “Communicati
11、onPsychologists know that good communication helps to create a sense of belonging, and ease frustration as well as full-blown crises. Strong families emphasize that good communication does not necessarily happen; it takes time and practice. Good communication means clearing up misunderstandings. Str
12、ong families work at explaining one an others messages. A new Mexico husband wrote: “My wife would say, Are there any good movies downtown? and shed mean, Id like to go to a movie. Id answer the question literally, by telling what was playing. Rarely did I suggest going to a show. Then Id be surpris
13、ed when she was unhappy. Eventually we figured this pattern out. She is better now about saying Id like to. instead of hinting, and Im better about checking to be sure I understand what she really means. “Spiritual WellnessSpiritual wellness was defined by strong families as a caring center within e
14、ach of us that promotes sharing, love and compassion for others. For many, the desire of their spiritual nature is expressed by church or synagogue (宗教) membership. For others, spirituality proves itself as a concern for those around them, or adherence to a moral code. Strong families express their
15、spiritual nature in daily life. They literally practice what they preach (宣扬). “Our family,“ one participant wrote, “has certain values-honesty, responsibility and tolerance, to name a few. But we have to practice those in everyday life. I cant talk about honesty and cheat on my income tax return. I
16、 cant yell responsibility and turn my back on a neighbor who needs help. Id know I was a hypocrite (伪君子), and so would the kids and everyone else. “Coping with CrisisStrong families are not without problems. But they have the ability to surpass lifes inevitable challenges when they arise. Many of th
17、e tools these families identified as necessary for coping with crisis have touched on communication, spiritual resources. Another significant tool is adaptability.All strong families know, a healthy family is a place we enter for comfort, development and regeneration; a place from which we go forth
18、renewed and charged with power for positive living. As one woman said, “I put love into my family as an investment in their future, my future, our future. Its the best investment I can make. “Dont Forget to ForgiveFor many, the ultimate deposit to the emotional bank account comes in forgiving.When y
19、ou forgive, you open the channels for trust and unconditional love. You cleanse your heart. You also remove a major obstacle that keeps others from changing-because when you dont forgive, you put yourself between people and their energy on work with their own conscience, they spend it defending and
20、justifying their behavior to you.In everything you do for your family, keep in mind the miracle of the Chinese bamboo. After the seed is planted, new, taller shoots appear until the bamboo reaches full height. But the most dramatic growth is underground, where a root-like structure creates an intric
21、ate interlocking system. Using this system as support, the bamboo can grow to more than 35 meters!The emotional bank account can be like that. As you begin to make deposits, you may see positive results immediately. More often it will take weeks, months, even years, but results will come, and you wi
22、ll be astonished at the changes.(分数:70.00)(1).Many families mentioned the five key qualities for making a strong family function time and again.(分数:7.00)填空项 1:_(2).The number-one threat to a marriage is extramarital affair, for commitment and sexual fidelity are so closely linked.(分数:7.00)填空项 1:_(3)
23、.Commitment means a husband or a wife just invests money to the family.(分数:7.00)填空项 1:_(4).Strong families can enjoy high quality of time just by spending little time together.(分数:7.00)填空项 1:_(5).Feeling appreciated by others is the most basic of human needs.(分数:7.00)填空项 1:_(6).For strong family, go
24、od communication happens spontaneously.(分数:7.00)填空项 1:_(7).Children play a very important role in dealing with crisis in strong families.(分数:7.00)填空项 1:_(8).Good communication means _.(分数:7.00)填空项 1:_(9).Strong families need _ as a caring center to promote sharing, love and compassion for each other
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